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Day: May 4, 2005

My Love For The Free Spirit Who Is The JWo

Yesterday, I was in the shower, blasting my shower radio & listening to the DJs stick their noses into people’s business, at said people’s request, and marvelling at the stupidity and naievete of people who think resolving personal issues via the radio is a good idea.

Suddenly, James was in the bathroom (he had left for school right before I got into the shower.) I asked him what was wrong, pulling back the shower curtain. His face looked so sad, I was bewildered & was immediately concerned that something terrible had, though I guess it wasn’t so desperate a demeanor to make me worried about the dogs. He told me that we’d had a frost, that’s what had killed the tomatoes up by the house, and – this is the bad part – it killed his giant pumpkin.

Now, as you look at words, and you maybe read about James’ desire to grow a giant pumpkin for the first time, you might chuckle. The phrase “Giant Pumpkins” is kind of funny, on its own. But my heart just broke for him, and I sent him an email mid-morning, expressing my sadness and how I wished I could fix it.

He wrote me back & told me that he was already germinating some fresh seeds, and while he was bummed, he was ready to try again. Since he’d been talking about the pumpkins with his classes, he had to tell them the bad news. One of the other fifth-grade teachers had her class make him SYMPATHY CARDS. It was so touching. Here are a few pix – the collection was touching, hilarious, and bittersweet. And as JWo put it, moments like that are exactly why he teaches, and they’re moments most of us never get in our jobs.


“Sorry about your sweet little pumpkin”, and “Sympathy pumkin. Sorry about our pumkin. I know your sad but know its in heaven playing with its friends” sic Posted by Hello


“Sorry”, “Loving Memory”, “Sorry you lost your prize possession” Posted by Hello


“I’m sorry about your pumpkin. Death will come and death will go. You can always try again. Again I am sorry about your loss. I know how it feels to lose your loved one.” Posted by Hello

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